Read the bill first
- For everyday dining, settle the bill. Ask whether service, tea/cover or private-room charges are included and how they are calculated. Understand required charges before ordering rather than treating every extra as a tip.
- Shanghai’s government dining guidance says tipping is generally unnecessary. This is a local customs reference, not a legal ban or a rule for every premium or international travel service.
- Check whether private-guide, car and multi-day-tour contracts include guide fees or suggested gratuities. If pleased, ask politely how to express thanks and do not insist if staff decline cash.
At the table and in company
When sharing dishes, use serving chopsticks or spoons and ask companions if unsure how a dish is shared. Clearly state allergies, alcohol limits or foods you avoid; courtesy does not require accepting something unsuitable.
Confirm time and address when invited and notify your host if delayed. Ask directly about splitting the bill rather than assuming a universal custom. Seek consent before photographing people, entering private space or touching belongings.
Temples, museums and public transport
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Read local signs
Follow dress and quiet-space instructions at religious sites and check photography and flash rules. Do not touch artefacts or take offerings.
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Keep access clear
Queue, let others exit first and avoid stopping at gates or escalator exits. Use headphones on trains and metros and respect priority seats and accessible routes.
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Respond to the person
Customs differ by family, city and venue. Ask “请问这里可以吗？” (“Is this allowed here?”) when unsure and follow staff guidance rather than performing assumed traditions.
Check before you go
These are general suggestions, not assumptions about every Chinese person. Check Hong Kong and Macao charging and tipping customs separately.
Common questions
Is refusing alcohol impolite?
Politely say you do not drink and choose tea or another beverage. You need not compromise health, religion or personal choice for a social occasion.
Must I tip again if there is a service charge?
Check the bill and booking terms first. Do not feel obliged to duplicate a charge because you are unfamiliar with local customs; ask staff to explain it.
Read next & sources
Sources
- Is tipping necessary when dining in Shanghai?上海市政府 / Shanghai Government
- Palace Museum official reservation instructions故宫博物院 / The Palace Museum
Sources support the relevant rules, last reviewed 3 Oct 2026. Routes, budgets and practical suggestions are editorial guidance, not official guarantees. Recheck rules and service availability before travelling.